Sunday, February 27, 2011

Sunday Afternoon Tea

Hope deferred makes the heart sick...
Proverbs 13:12
We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure...
Hebrews 6:19

For awhile it looked like this week would be a Monday Afternoon Tea... it has been a week when ponderings had to be accomplished in the midst of busy-ness and sinus misery.  ;)

These past days, I have been pondering about hope in general and the hope of Spring specifically... for obvious reasons. My thoughts are on flowers and green grass and blooming dogwood trees and the sound of chirping birds outside my window each morning and red umbrellas on deck tables and the planting of seeds and seedlings... and warmth... hope.

As I have shown before, I have had the Scrabble titles H O P E spelled out on top of my white vintage style bread box for a couple of years now.  It was my Word of the Year for a few years. Hope meant much to me as it continues to do.  I love all the images the word brings to my mind, even as I read it... HOPE.

It happened that I was listening to a Bible teacher on Saturday who casually mentioned you don't hear much about hope, anymore.  That one statement started my thoughts down a rabbit trail... much like Alice's falling into Wonderland... and I realized the truth of that statement.

In many churches and entire denominations these days, hope is the poor and weak stepsister of mighty masculine faith.  We are made to feel weakness if we say we have hope... as if faith and hope cannot cohabit in the same soul... much less the same prayer request.

Yes, it is true that faith is essential to our faith and our walk with God.  The book of Hebrews tells us it is impossible to please God without faith.  Faith is a power verb, that force which causes us to dig deep in the trenches of our spiritual life and hunker down as we read the Word and Seek God's Will and believe in answered prayer... when the answers are yet unseen.

But that does not make hope of no importance or weak... no, it is that feminine feeling that hope offers which makes me feel all warm and cozy.  Faith draws the sword and fights the battles.  Hope pours the tea and serves the chicken soup and lights the candles and keeps the home fires burning.  Faith gets all sweaty and flexes his muscles as he conquers the enemy with the Word.  Hope is the knitted throw around the shoulders which brings warmth as the cold winds of a trial whips through my days.

I won't go down that road any longer, the one the Bible teacher mentioned as in an afterthought.  Hope will take its' place of honor alongside faith in my moments and hours and days and years on this, The Silent Planet*. 

Together they will shed a light in the darkness until the day the journey is complete... and as the old men of the cloth would say... now, that will preach.  Forever and ever, amen. :)

*The name by which Earth is known in the Lewis Space Trilogy.

Friday, February 25, 2011

Q & A from deepening the pantry posts

Okay, I'll see how many questions I can answer from the last few posts.  ;)

I've found stocking up a little at a time is the best way I've been able to do it, too.  These days the only time I do a big "stock up" (and even that is not a lot) is when a great stock up sale meets a week I have extra money to spend.  I'm always surprised how quickly the weeks go by and I'm stocked up on essentials, just by adding a little to the cart for the pantry when I shop.

I no longer can afford a very deep pantry overall but I try to have at least one or two of basic items on hand... and more of essentials. I keep a grocery list on the frig just for those items I need for the pantry.  It's also a good idea to have a list (written or typed out) of those essentials you want to keep on hand in the pantry, as well as the "extras" you want to purchase when on sale.  The older I get, the more I  need to write it down... ;)

Coupons
I do use coupons but I'm not what you would call a real coupon shopper.  My husband cuts out the coupons in the Sunday Supplement (those he knows I'd want) and then gives both the cut out coupons and the Supplements to me (just in case there is a coupon there he didn't know I'd want).  It's something he has done for years. It makes him happy.  What can I say... engineers are a different breed of humanity.

I also subscribe to a couple coupon sites online (like Coupons.com) but I've found the very best coupons are available when you sign up through a product's website.  Seventh Generation is one of the websites where you can sign up to print their monthly coupon offers, quite often $1.00 off coupons!  Kashi is also good, they send out samples of their products which also contains coupons.  Their last cereal sample had one $3.00 coupon and a few $1.00 coupon off of that particular cereal (which was also GOOD!). 

I'd say I use the cut out coupons less than half the time because the store brands are often just as good and at a better price than many coupons.  Also, I don't use many prepared and prepackaged items... which is what so many of the coupons are for in the Supplement and online coupon subscriptions.

I often find great coupons for paper items and coffee.  Millstone has a $2.00 off coupon once in awhile which can be used on their K-cups if you have a store nearby that sells them (I think it is at Target where I can get Millstone K-cups).  I also look for McDonald's coupons and other restaurants... very often a buy-one-get-one-free offer.

If I can save substantially on a prepackaged item with a coupon, I will purchase that item to keep on the pantry shelves... especially if they are also on sale... so we cut out coupons that are what we call "maybes".  I store the cut out coupons in an accordion file folder which was originally to be used for greeting cards.

Since it is just the three of us (and two of the three are guys), we don't use a lot of toiletry items so I don't utilize anything like the CVS specials.  One thing I have learned from experience... some of these do save money and I've also bought things I didn't need in the long run.  But others have really saved money on much needed items.

This happened so often in my food co-op (we'd all order things we hadn't planned on ordering to make minimum order requirements) that when we went on Disability, my good friend just let me order what I needed through her and I wasn't tempted to order extra.   Unfortunately, she moved to Europe.

Wheat Grinding
I originally started grinding my own wheat in the 1990s when it was recommended by a doctor for building the immune system.  My first wheat grinder was a hand held device that took a muscle man to work.  We ended up doing some research and ordered an electric wheat grinder although I kept the hand grinder (it's someplace on my shelves) in case it was The End of The World As We Know It and someone could still grind wheat without electricity.  Laugh if you will...  :)

There are now hand held wheat grinders that are much easier to use but if you are going to grind wheat often, the electric grinders may be worth the price.  They cost about the same as a good food processor. 

The very best place to find information and to purchase any such items is The Urban Homemaker... here.  Marilyn is an expert in all things bread making but she also offers many products that are of highest quality.

Our budget has been so tight, I haven't ordered for years (since before her hubby suddenly passed away) but it is still owned by the same family and they are good people.  Her husband once called my daughter to talk her out of a wheat order because she could purchase the same wheat much cheaper closer to her home!  That is character...

I expect she may know about Vita Mix although if anyone reading grinds wheat with one, leave a comment if it works well.   Yes... there were at one time electric grinders that ground the wheat too hot but I'm not sure if they are still sold.  Once again... I would contact The Urban Homemaker (link above).

Regarding King Arthur flour... I just found out from a friend of mine that flour which contains bromine leaches iodine from the body.  Since I already have thyroid illness, that was good to know!  King Arthur says on the package that it does not contain bromine.

I always use King Arthur flour for everyday home use but I have used other flour (good quality) for when I'm making large amounts of Christmas cookies, etc.  Also... regular King Arthur flour can be used nicely for making bread if you don't have room to store both all-purpose and bread flour.


My old posts and other sites
The links to my older Coffee Tea Books and Me posts regarding Recession Ponderings, Stocking Up, etc. are located on the side bar under Deepening the Pantry links... you have to scroll down awhile. Clicking on each Label title will bring up all the past posts under that name.

After those links are listed, there are links to other blogs and then articles... all having to do with stocking up, simpler living lifestyle, etc.  If you are interested in learning more, there is great information there.

Alas, I'm certain my old 1990s posts from the emergency preparedness website are long gone.  But I've learned even more since then so that is okay.

Grocery Stores
We do have an Aldi nearby and I love that store.  Just like any other "store brands", there are some items I like and some I don't.  They are especially good for dairy and produce and I like to check out their specials (you can sign up to receive a weekly Aldi e-mail each week, too).

Perhaps the most import practice I do to save money and find sales is to look through the grocery sales supplements in the newspaper where they advertise their sales and loss leaders.  I also shop about four different stores... three fairly close to me and one (Target) is in a nearby town.  We usually plan a stop at Target when we are near that area.

I don't keep a written price list (suggested in the Tightwad Gazette books as well as in Laine's Letters website) because I purchase a rather limited grocery list and I know which grocery stores have the best prices on those items.  The grocery supplements will tell me if there is a sale in a store where an items is usually a higher price.  My husband, however, does keep a written price list for the items he purchases.

My favorite grocery store would be far too expensive to shop at exclusively but it also has some of the best sales (and it is the store that puts meat on clearance when it nears the sale-by date).  Kroger can also be pricey but it has wonderful 10 for $10 sales, as well as putting packaged produce on clearance near sell-by dates.  Wal Mart is not always the cheapest, either, so you have to know your prices.

I buy my honey at the Farmer's Market each summer and I prefer to purchase produce and even flowers there when I can... fresh, local products and it supports the farmers directly.  That is the best of all...  Well, in addition to planting something yourself.  ;)

I hope this answers all the questions!

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Just checking in...

I was gone from home almost all day today beginning with a nice get together with my friend, Linda... stopping by the Goodwill near her house and then near mine on the way home.  We both have mixed emotions about Goodwill, their prices have skyrocketed and we both notice more "less than desirable" items offered then there used to be.  However, you can still find great bargains if you look hard enough.  I found a pair of brand new Florsheim shoes for my husband, he was thrilled with them.

I'll answer the questions in the comments of yesterday's post soon.  If you have written an e-mail in the past few weeks, I'm also behind on answering them.  Every once in awhile... life happens. ;)

Tonight we met Miss M.'s parents and her sister for dinner.  We had such a good time together.  Of course, I already knew I'd like them because Christopher feels so comfortable with them. 

Be back soon!

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

A really long pondering about stocking up...


After the comments in the last pantry post, I thought I'd write out more thoughts about deepening the pantry.  Emphasis on "off the top of my head" kind of writing... and as it is my ponderings, it is rather long.  :)

If you are really wanting in-depth "deepening the pantry" information, I'd suggest taking the time to read through my posts from the past years as well as following the links provided to other sites.  They are all under the Deepening the Pantry links on the sidebar.

At one time, I lived in a large house which had a utility room in the basement that I used as my pantry.  I also had more discretionary income in which to stock up.  Today I live in a small-ish house (no basement) and my discretionary income is often the change I find in my coat pocket.  But I'm still able to deepen the pantry because it is just a part of my every day existence... I think in pantry terms.

Moving to a much smaller house required doing things differently in many ways.  For instance, I have a fraction of the storage room for the dishes and seasonal larger accessories I used to decorate with... so for the most part, I cut way back on items for specific holidays... no more Christmas teapots or Easter serving trays.  (I do still have a collection of Thanksgiving-Autumnal English plates as well as four Christmasy plates... they take very little storage space and I use the Christmas plates all year.) 

So, what does this have to do with stocking the pantry?  I'm glad you asked.  I need to concentrate on the basic items of cooking instead of the "nice to have" stuff.  My priorities for space and money are the basics of baking (flour, sugars, honey, etc.) as well as wheat*.   I also stock up on butter when it is on sale, slip three or four pkgs. in a gallon size Zip-lock bag, and toss it in the freezer (if you fill up more than one bag with butter, then slip a piece of paper with the date these were purchased into the bag... where it can be seen before removing butter, this way you will know which bag to use butter from first).  I don't believe margarine is all that good for you but I do try to have one very good quality margarine and Butter Flavored Crisco on hand... only for the cookie recipes which require them.

Having said that, I also have a few favorite family recipes which start with either yellow cake mix or chocolate cake mix.  Just recently I realized the cost of cake mixes were going up a lot so the next time I was shopping at Wal Mart, I checked to see if they still had Pillsbury cake mixes for 88 cents.  They were hard to find (the pricier cake mixes all at eye level!) but they were there and at that price.  I bought a few boxes of yellow cake mix and a few German chocolate mixes to put on the shelves in the garage.  That price was a fraction of what they wanted for cake mixes elsewhere.

Also, I decided to purchase what I needed to complete a couple dessert recipes entirely... which meant purchasing the store brand of cherry pie filling and a couple of my favorite graham cracker crust pie shells (I rarely have actual graham crackers in the pantry).  I also added one can of sweetened condensed milk to my cart (I already had one or two at home) and I purchased two bags of confectioners sugar and two bags of brown sugar to add to the one or two bags I already had.  None of these items were on sale but I knew these were also the best prices in town.

I'd say one of the secrets to having a well stocked pantry is to look through your favorite recipes and then make certain you always have at least one item each needed for the recipes... and more when possible.  Most of us use the same recipes each month (main dishes, side dishes, and desserts) so it doesn't take much time to peruse our favorite recipes before going to the grocery store.  This way we have everything needed for a last minute meal or dessert for the family or unexpected company... and it frees us to show hospitality at the last minute.

It doesn't do me any good to purchase a chocolate cake mix and then not have a can of cherry pie filling (store brand works well) when I want to make the chocolate cherry cake.  So, when I'm purchasing one of the items I make certain I have everything needed.  Some items I just keep stocked, like trying to have canned pumpkin on the shelves at all times (which was hard last year!) because I have so many recipes I use it in.

Right now I don't have any chocolate chips in the house, very rare for my pantry.  But I haven't found them at a good price lately so I'll wait.  However, I bought a can of pumpkin each time I went to the store over the Holidays even though it was expensive, after it was not available last year. 

It just gets down to the priority and what is in season.  For instance, I purchased three boxes of orzo and a bag of lemons the last time I was at the grocery store since we're still in the season for my favorite chicken soup.  I tend to have chicken stock on hand in cold weather more than I would in hot weather, when something else would become a priority for limited funds and shelf space.

When I was at another grocery store recently, I purchased frozen vegetables which were on sale, including the three pepper mix (sliced red, green, and yellow peppers).  The frozen peppers on sale are often cheaper than the fresh items at full price but in the winter, the frozen green and colored peppers are much, much cheaper.  It will be months and months before my garden will grow these.

Now, the baking items for the pantry were pretty much planned before I went to the store since I knew Wal Mart had the cheapest costs for those items.  The frozen veggies were purchased for the pantry because I noticed the sale when I went to the grocery store.  Because I am always thinking pantry when shopping, it is second nature to look for some items to see if they are on sale... like frozen veggies.

That particular store also puts their packaged salad lettuce blends on clearance in the morning as their sell by date nears.  I always check that area upon first entering that store and came away on that trip with three bags of salad for 99 cents each.  They just have to be used within two or three days.  But their clearance meat section is not good at all, they don't put a very good sale on the meat which is near its' sell by date.

However, another of my favorite (but more expensive) grocery stores puts their meat on a manager's discount in the morning... and it is a great discount.  That store is also good for purchasing soup bones very cheap (which you can't even find in some stores) and they very often have at least one brand of K-cups on sale.

Each store has that which is a better price or has better sales on some items than others.  Today my husband has an appointment near where our favorite Target is located so he is stopping by there on the way to the appointment to purchase two bags of our favorite coffee... the Target store brand Kona blend... great price.  I like to make that coffee for breakfast and save the more expensive K-cups (although usually purchased on sale) for the times we are in a hurry or when Christopher wants a cup of coffee when he arrives home in the evening... especially if he needs to stay up late to study.

Then there are those times when I stock up a lot on an item when they are on a great stock up price (most often these can be found in the newspaper's grocery supplements or online with some stores).  I've mentioned before that a couple of the grocery stores in the area put their canned veggies on sale in the autumn.  I've purchased four or five flats of green beans during that time when they were a quarter a can.  Of course, with limited storage available, that kind of stock up has to be only for much used items.  Various canned tomatoes would be another such item.

The same goes with stocking our shelves with TP and other paper goods (I store mine in the tiny shower which is in the tiny bathroom).  I recently purchased three of my favorite 7th Generation dish washing liquid because I had a coupon for each that took the price down to around $1.75.  I use Charlie's Soap for my laundry and thanks to a gift from Stephanie (hmmm... Mother's Day or birthday?), I haven't had to buy any laundry detergent for awhile.  I'm sure there are many items we can think of to purchase on sale for later use... or full price when it lasts so long like the Charlie's Soap.

The more we can stock the pantry with items at either their cheapest price in the area or on sale... and then shop the pantry instead of going out to the store and paying full price (and save the cost of gas!)... then we eat well for the least amount of money... and fight inflation.  Not to mention we have items on hand should anything happen to stop the flow of transportation, have a local or national emergency, or as so many people know right now... a job loss.

I've told you before how we lived from our pantry for months after a job loss (that was when we had the bigger house and pantry).  I'm sure some people are tired of reading about my friend whose grocery stores were empty after Katrina... and she lived in New Mexico!

But as I've also said so often... deepening the pantry is insurance we can eat.  Thus or my "off the top of my head" ponderings.  Please forgive the questionable grammar and any typos I didn't catch.

* I have used wheat and owned a wheat grinder since the mid 1990s.  I started grinding my own wheat for health reasons.  But I've known so many people to store wheat for an emergency and then never use it in the meantime.  If you are going to store wheat, you really should be grinding it and using it regularly or you 1) won't know how to use it when needed, and 2) your body (and that of your family) may not be used to that much fiber! 

As it is, I usually mix freshly ground wheat with at least one cup of unbleached flour when I use it after all this time. If I'm making bread or cinnamon rolls for other people, I reverse that to one cup of ground wheat to three cups unbleached flour.

Our local Wal Mart now sells wheat on the same shelf as the flour...

Picture: Housewife Taking Canned Goods... ; allposters.com

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Sunday Afternoon Tea

"I don't wanna go through the motions
I don't wanna go one more day
without Your all consuming passion inside of me
I don't wanna spend my whole life asking,
"What if I had given everything,
instead of going through the motions?"
Matthew West song

I've found some of the best theology is in lyrics of songs... and the above lyrics in the Matthew West song never fails to inspire me.  A much loved one found Life in those lyrics when going through a dark night of the soul and as they later told me... "that song you love made me think of what would happen if I just gave up on life".

The lyrics (the entire song) were first heard on K-love as I was driving, on a day in a week in a month that I had been feeling passion for life waning.  Few would even guess, not even those closest to me for if there is one thing I have long been able to do it is... go through the motions.

There was no true life behind the motions, much less any passion for the path He has chosen... just the robotic accomplishments one can do in their sleep if one has lived long enough... cleaning, laundry, dishes, cooking... that which must be accomplished for the house to remain liveable.  But no creativity, no art in life, no gilding of the lily so to speak... just surviving.  Going through the motions...

That particular season of life-less days was most likely sparked by extended illness.  Many challenges can bring us to our knees... which is where we find the answers.  The Life slowly returned as I drew closer to the One who gave His Life.  I had to stop comparing where I was to where I had dreamed I would be in this Season.

While I would have said I was trusting Him to all things, I began to realize there was a part of me which was just "going through the motions".   I have long written that when we can't do everything... we must still do something... but I was not listening to my own counsel.

I can't tell you when I stopped going through the motions and brought passion back to my days.  Passion... that which I preached to my children from their toddler years.  "What should I be when I grow up?" was a common question of both.  "Follow your passion!"  Find what God created you to do... what thing on this planet do you love doing the most... what makes your heart sing?  Be a Renaissance man or woman and don't do just what you are paid to do... there is so much in this world to embrace.

But as I learned when the passion waned... it is not what we love to do but Whom we love that truly provides passion to do more than make our way through each hour of every day.  Oh, how I would dread getting to the end of my life and look back, only to realize I'd lived each day in a rather zombie-like state... only doing and never really feeling.  It is not the checking off of another line on our "To Do" list of life that He wants from us... it is... us.

As His love bloomed again within my heart, I was able to do much more than go through the motions of life.  He, who created Life, who IS Life, takes whatever my poor broken soul can think of to do and makes magic... Narnia magic.  He who came as a humble servant to take our place as the offering of the sin of Eden... He is now the one who truly gilds the lily... and I am that lily. 

So are you... :)

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Should we trust the stock market... or stock up?

When I want to catch the latest world news, I like to watch Fox Business News... very informative and not quite the usual 24/7 news channel hype (unless the stock market is crashing).  So, I've found it interesting to hear that many of the financial experts are surprised by the continuing uptake on the stock market even as turmoil increases around the world (much of it originally brought about by... or at least used by those who want turmoil... the fact there are huge price increases in food and other commodity supplies).

Of course, I don't even go near the stock market as an investor.  No, my investments are made at the Kroger veggie aisle, Wal Mart's milk and dairy section, and the BP gas station in town.  Sometimes an investment is made of coffee and a muffin at a favorite coffee place when I need a sanity morning out.  But no stocks or bonds.

I'm writing out a grocery list after putting in my request for a couple hundred dollars of the tax return when it arrives.  Just those items I believe should always be on hand.  As simple as butter in the freezer and the usual flour and other baking items, canned tomatoes, various pastas including orzo for cold weather soup and warmer weather salads, dishwashing liquid, TP, etc..  Just a little deepening of the pantry on a budget... basic ingredients to insure meals on the table.

No, I don't believe the stock market and I cringe to think of those who are trusting the numbers instead of what their "gut" tells them (can you tell I love NCIS there?).  I must admit my only stock I trust in right now is stocking up with any extra money available.

Christopher found out this week that the Federal scholarship program he's received money from is ending and then just yesterday received information that the State is cutting all scholarships.  Along with the rising cost of food and energy which we have already been feeling, that was a shock we didn't expect.  But we should not be surprised.

All this to say my friends... trust your "gut", your instincts, and most of all... what God may be whispering to you.  I don't think it is a coincidence that so many people are saying they get this feeling they are to deepen the pantry, perhaps grow a few veggies in the backyard, or even take on a more agricultural lifestyle (which is not an option for most of us but can be for some).

I'm hoping we can extend our raised bed garden a bit and I'm planning on growing more food on the deck... that which will not be consumed by Chip and Dale... the resident chipmunks.  I'll stock up a little more as possible and read through my cookbooks which offer inexpensive and healthy menus. 

Just recently I was catching up reading some blogs when I came across a great post on Simple, Green, Frugal Co-op (one of my favorites!).  The post was titled Saving Money in the Kitchen and it can be found... here.  Don't forget, I have lots and lots of good links on the side bar for deepening the pantry, living a simpler lifestyle, etc.

There is always more we can learn about cooking, sewing, gardening, preserving food, buying good quality at less prices, etc.  I've even found keeping an ear open when the experts talk about commodity prices to be helpful, we've all been hearing how cocoa, coffee, sugar, corn products, and cotton are going up a great deal... even before we add in the rising cost of transportation as oil prices continue up.

That's when it is time to put an extra can of Hershey's cocoa and a couple bags of chocolate chips, a bag of brown sugar or confectioners sugar, a bag of coffee, etc. on the grocery list just for the pantry.  When we come across a great stock up sale, we can really stock the pantry at greatly reduced costs.

That feeling you have about preparing for what may be down the road... trust it.  Then remember God is in control.  :)

More recession ponderings later...

Photo:  Apple Pie Harvest; allposters.com

Thursday, February 17, 2011

When fries inspire a praise and worship session


I ended up staying in town last night until 8:00-ish... long past the time I'm suppose to have dinner.  So, isn't that an excuse for fast food?  My nutritionist would tell me I should have taken my book to a sit-down restaurant with healthy food but the three dollars in my pocket screamed McDonald's One Dollar Menu.  Guess who won?

I waited in the long drive-thru line, gave the nice guy three ones and a penny and waited for change, and then waited until a bag was given to me by a young girl who warned me the french fries were hot.  They do that sort of thing ever since that lawsuit because their coffee was... get this... you won't believe it... their coffee was hot.

I pulled over to a quiet place in their parking lot to give myself an insulin shot so I could ingest said food and then... took my first bite of those fries.  Oh, my... yum... and I gave God a very heartfelt thanks for McDonald's hot french fries.  Hmmm... perhaps I shouldn't have written heart and fries in the same sentence... don't want to give my body any ideas... better stop to take a baby aspirin.

But I digress... there are just times when McDonald's fries and a McDouble are absolutely insanely delicious.  Perhaps it is because I don't eat fast food often.  I don't know, it may have had something to do with driving dark country roads with one hand while the other goes in and out of a paper sack.  Perhaps the fact it was two hours past dinner time and I was starving.  Most likely... all the above.

But here I was driving and thanking God and eating and thanking God and turning my bright lights on and off as a car came toward me on the narrow, dark road.  Kinda' reminds me when I drove a stick shift as a teenager and ate a Whopper at the same time... a girl had to do what a girl had to do when she left high school for an afternoon job each day.  But I digress again...

As I was driving, Amy Grant's song Better than a Hallelujah started playing on K-Love.  Perfect timing!  I think God loves praise any time we give it to him as well as a thankful heart.  Even if it is inspired by potatoes.

By the time I arrived home, the empty sack was thrown in the tall kitchen trash container where (hopefully) the aroma of burger was gone before the guys arrived home.  They were given basketball tickets to a big game (although every game is considered big if you ask me).

I turned on the TV to the station carrying the game so I could 1) see when they would be leaving for home and 2) get an immediate response to whether their mood would be good or... not.

No mention was made of any aromas wafting from the trash later... a good thing.

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Favorite places I've visited lately... links


Okay, we've been through this before when my ponder has piddled out.  Or perhaps my brain is on chocolate overload from Valentine's Day... no, that is impossible.  Broccoli overload, spinach overload, brussels sprout overload... but never too much chocolate.

I have had a few tabs up for a week now, places I've wanted to share.  Finally I'm getting around to giving you the links to these articles.  I'm still a tad under the weather... just getting tired easily but daily improving.

The first link is for the most recent post by my daughter.  I'm hoping she gets to write more as baby Anna gets older (but just as cute as ever).  She's trying a different homeschool path which is leading her to ponder the subject of making lists... here.  Added:  Within these lists, she is giving information about the food they eat for the Feingold diet.

Chuck Colson's Breakpoint (short radio program) was recently about The Romance of Domesticity; Taking Joy in the Ordinary.  It was so good!  You can read it... here.  His Breakpoint programs have also been about classic books, as well as the expected ponderings about the culture. 

C. J. Mahaney writes about why we should Keep Reading even if we only remember a small part of what we read... here.   In this short article, he also shares a John Piper quote about reading that I've appreciated for a long time.

I have recently been reading The Amish Cook's Anniversary Book; 20 Years of Food, Family, and Faith, which contains representative columns by Lovina and her mother in the twenty years of writing their newspaper column.   I'll write more about the Anniversary book at the end of the month but you can read Lovina's columns... here.  You do have to sign up to read the columns but it is free.*

We've had enough of a warm up that we can pull the car all the way into the driveway without getting stuck.  You still can't see the sidewalk to the porch and the walk to the mailbox is a combination of ice and mud.  But it's all looking better than last week this time!

*This website is temporarily having "issues".  It's a great source of not only the Amish Cook column but recipes.  Try back!

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Sunday Afternoon Tea


I know I've been Missing in Action around here.  I think there are cobwebs in the HTML code.  While there is no serious illness as it was last year, my doctor was very pleased with my recent three month visit, I have been literally under the weather.

Sinus passages and ears are inflamed enough to require more antihistamine than usual... and it tends to just knock me out. Which isn't a bad thing if your head hurts but not conducive to getting much accomplished.  Other than the usual medicine, I was told what I need is... Spring.  :)

It is at the end of winter that we need to hold on to the hope that is before us, helped by the promise of a February thaw here in the North.  Hope that the mounds of snow will soon melt away to make it possible to drive the cars all the way into the driveway.  Hope that one no longer slips and slides walking to the mailbox.  Just the beginning of letting oneself think of planting seeds and growing and the harvest to come.

We are told in the Book that if we hold on, we will rise up with wings like eagles.  I must admit to not feeling much like an eagle right now but more like a mud covered sparrow which is shivering in the cold.  Even as I look out my kitchen window while washing cups and plates and skillets... I can see the splash of cardinal red against the snow and be thankful of a God who designed color in winter.  Thankful but still very much in need of the warmth of spring robins and the hummingbirds of summer.

There is a reason the Book has so much to say about hanging on and becoming steadfast and not giving up and running the race to the end... for life is not a sprint but a marathon.  A dear friend I've known for years and years so often reminds me, "Pace yourself Bren-friend, miles to go... miles to go".


Being a book-ish type person, my ponderings this past week (while trudging through the realities of a swollen throat and aching ears) have been about Lucy and Mr. Tumnus and not Matthew, Mark, Luke, or John.

I was pondering the day when Mr. Tumnus met Lucy by the lamppost and it has been Winter and Never Christmas for so long that Narnia can hardly remember the celebrations.  Little did the faun know meeting the young girl was the beginning of the end of winter and spring was just around the corner and that Aslan was already on the move.

We must hold fast to the fact that no matter how cold and harsh our days feel in their twenty-four hour cycles... Aslan is and has been on the move and winter has already been conquered.  It is in the journey that we become like the One who has already stated it is finished and in the journey that every good thing we need in this world to run the marathon is gained... not in that moment we cross the finish line and find ourselves at the destination.

So, instead of holding our breath and sprinting to the end... never enjoying the journey in the midst of the harsh climate the realities our days often throw at us... may we take the time to look around and live today within this marathon called a lifetime... holding on to the Author and Finisher of our faith and the One who holds those days in His hands.  No matter what it appears as we look around this world... Aslan is moving.

Wednesday, February 09, 2011

The recipes are posted


I finally have the old cowboy casserole and the new lentil soup recipes posted... here.

I love finding new recipes that are cheap and delicious!  Even my husband (who is not as fond of lentils as I am) loves the lentil soup with bacon.

With the rising prices of food showing up each time I go to the grocery store, I am so glad I've assembled a good collection of simple but yummy recipes through the years.   Many of them came from my three old Beverly Nye cookbooks.

Since Christopher is not all that fond of lemon desserts (even with the sweeter Meyer lemons), I wanted to make a treat he'd enjoy so I pulled out one of my Beverly Nye recipe for cocoa bars and frosted them with an easy chocolate frosting.  This recipe makes a cake style brownie... here.

Tuesday, February 08, 2011

Baby, it is COLD outside!


It was snowing last night but the sun has come out and all looks beautiful.  I can say that since my neighbor plowed the gravel lane and I can actually get OUT!  Although both cars must remain parked at the end of our driveway (which resembles a small mountain range) and getting to them requires a bit of a hike.

I can take the brutally cold -9 wind chill when the sun is shining on the snow, well... until I walk out to the mailbox to place Valentine's Day cards in it to be on the way to children in New England... then I admit it is prettier from inside the house.

Miss Victoria had to visit Dr. Lisa yesterday about the worsening limp.   It's an immune problem, to be helped with medication.  When Sasha and Storm had to go to the vet's office, they were in a snit for days.  However, Victoria loves to visit Dr. Lisa (where she receives lots of affection) and sees the entire visit as a great adventure and a chance to visit the outside world.  It is just so... her. 

Anyhoo, I'm not so sure she would have been as excited about it if her appointment was for today with the cold winds whipping through the kitty carrier!  She would have required a good brushing upon her return home, if nothing else.

We have entered a stretch where the coldest temperatures this winter will take hold.  Of course, there is no use complaining about it where I live... now friends in Atlanta would have something to mutter about.  I think I'll head for blogs by Australians for awhile and think warm... think warm.  Those who study such things are expecting a hot and dry summer here so cold weather will probably be quite nostalgic by June.

Over the weekend, I made lemon bars using a recipe Stephanie sent me.  We both had Meyer lemons which had to be used quickly (I have read they go bad much quicker than ordinary lemons due to their high sugar content).  Lemon bars always remind me of a proper tea time so I got out my cheerful yellow teapot which has its' permanent home on the microwave, one of my very favorite teacups, and a saucer from my wedding china on which to place the lemon bar for tea.  Lovely...

By the way, you know you have been married awhile when the pattern for your wedding china has been retired.  I only had five place settings purchased before the aforementioned retirement but that was all we needed for a family of four.

We inherited my husband's grandmother's china soon thereafter and my everyday china was enough for most events... but my wedding china makes me feel all warm and cozy, remembering what it was like to be nineteen years old and picking out china patterns.  :)

I promise to very soon post the cowboy casserole recipe as well as the new lentil soup recipe on Coffee Tea Books and Recipes.  But today there are miles to go before I sleep... literally... I have to leave for campus in minutes.

Sunday, February 06, 2011

Sunday Afternoon Tea

You will be the same person in five years as you are today
except for the people you meet and the books you read.
Charles "Tremendous" Jones

Sigh... as I write this... more snow is falling.  I am staying inside where it is warm and cozy, lemon bars (using a recipe Stephanie sent me last week) are cooling and the warmth from the stove and the sudsy dish water helped dispel the cold in the air.  While beautiful to look at, the snow in this snowiest winter I can remember is getting old.  Especially when one finds if difficult to leave their driveway. 

There has been plenty of time for reading this past week.  I continue to be haunted (in a good way that is) by the book about the Jonathan Edwards' family.  It has reminded me that God uses all kinds of families and in various circumstances.  To think how this one couple influenced a nation at first through Jonathan's writing and preaching, to be followed by the impact of their children and their heirs... amazing.

There was no Internet or telephone or even a dependable way to send and receive mail.  Travel was difficult at the least and often dangerous.  But there was a man and a woman who loved their children and those who came across their path, sharing hospitality and their Faith from their small house in a small town... one day at a time.

I think we forget that today, especially when we have had years and years of teaching that it is only those things done outside the home which are important.  We have so much more in the way of things to share His work and His Gospel... but instead are they distractions rather then instruments to use for His Glory?   I don't know...

That book changed me as the very best of books can do, which is why I was thinking of the above quote by Charles "Tremendous" Jones.  Of course, there is more in our life which can change us (both good and bad) but I know what he is saying... not only the people we meet in person but those we come to know on the written page can affect who we are.

Ann Voskamp's One Thousand Gifts arrived last week and I am finding it quite a "God Thing" that this book would immediately follow the former.  I plan to write a review later this week but suffice it to say both books remind me why I walk this planet... that the greatest work I can ever do for Him is wrapped up in all the little ideas and all the little thoughts and all the little actions... which become so much more when they are cast down at the feet of Jesus.

No family is perfect just as there are no perfect people (outside the Man who was God, of course).  But within our imperfections, God works to mold us and make us into the people He wants us to become... as we influence and help mold others... generation unto generation... until that Day He returns to rule and reign on this... the silent planet.

My reading this week reminded me circumstances need not be perfect for God to work through any of us.  But there is much which can be accomplished within the boundary lines of a home... whether it contains one person or a dozen... as long as "Your will not mine be done" is our daily prayer.

Thursday, February 03, 2011

Where she comes out of her hole and sees... snow

Sigh, Stephanie told me on the phone today that David is practically in tears over this weather.  Grammie could relate... 

Dinner is finally in the oven, my last minute go-to meal of cowboy casserole... so called because it has ground beef and a large can of baked beans (among other things) and I thought it once an appropriate name for little boy Christopher.  Since the now young man isn't certain when he will be home for dinner, I thought this a good warm up meal if necessary later... and it is still one of his favorites... and cheap.

While I was pushing the browning ground beef and onions around in the large skillet, for some reason the aroma made me think of my mother's kitchen decades ago.  Isn't it funny how the sense of smell can take us back to another time and another place.  I think of her with the aroma of coffee brewing and bacon frying in the morning, too.  :)

I feel I didn't get much at all accomplished today but in truth, I did get one of the bed quilts washed and dried, a quick trip to the grocery store, a library book dropped off, and Christopher picked up from campus (where he has been stuck since Monday!).  Speaking of stuck, my car got stuck twice on the way out of our gravel lane and really stuck on the way home where the gravel ends and our driveway begins.

It took the husband an hour of digging to get the car out in time for Christopher to leave for his next class.  He then went on to get stuck a couple times on the way into town... both times (just like most of mine)... able to get out by rocking the car back and forth.  It's almost enough to make a country girl ready to move back "in town"... almost. 

So, with all of the above I didn't get a chance to read at all today and the breakfast-lunch dishes are just now soaking as dinner is in the oven.  Sigh...  However, soon and very soon the gotta do's of the day will be behind me and I can curl up on the living room sofa with my pillow fluffed behind my head and a throw to keep me warm.  It is really, really cold here...

Oh, since someone asked... the artwork called Ask, Seek, Knock has a couple different artists prints on it, neither of which could I decipher since they are half covered by the mat.  However, hubby helped me take it off the wall and I found out it was product #3808 by a company called Carpentree... website here.  Gosh, I bought it at a Christian Bookstore in the mid-to-late 90s but you might get info at that link.

Regarding another comment... I'll have to go back and see if I've written about preparing for a storm (other than figuratively) and if not, I will try to put something together eventually.  I started writing online in the 1990s for an emergency preparedness website so I not only taught but learned a great deal from the other writers and readers.

I still have not been back to the blog's e-mail address... bad blogger.

But speaking of good bloggers... beloved bloggers... Jewels had a new post yesterday.  Hooray!  You can find it... here.  It was so wonderful to "see" her again.  :)

Picture: Sharing Grandma's Cookies; allposters.com

Wednesday, February 02, 2011

Snowed in...

We are still snowbound in the country with a combination of sleet and snow overwhelming the snowplows.  While our lights dimmed a few times, we never lost power.  I am just amazed at the great job the Rural Electric Company has done these past few years.  We used to lose power with far calmer winds.

So, how have I spent my snow days.  Well, I made cinnamon rolls yesterday and I tried a new lentil soup recipe today (and will post it on the recipe blog soon).  It was very good.  After  yesterday's work and preparation for the possibility of being without power, I spent most of today just doing necessary maintenance housework and reading.   

One Thousand Gifts arrived in the midst of the blizzard winds yesterday (FedEx is amazing), I had qualified to receive a free copy and I'm so grateful to DaySpring!  I cannot put it down, no... really, I have been carrying it around the house as I went from room to room.  It is that good... I will chat about it later.

Oh, yes!  I love Paul Stookey's Wedding Song (There is Love)... that is why it is now second on my Play List.  I don't think I've ever had so many comments about a Play List song before.  I usually just put it there before and after my August anniversary as it was sung at my wedding but I decided to enjoy it in Winter for awhile.  It has such a beautiful message.

If you come to the blog instead of reading through one of the rss feeds, you will notice I changed the Winter header.  While I love my neighbor's red barn and think it looks lovely in the snow... I needed to see green somewhere in my life.  So... I went back to my favorite header. 

I have not been to my e-mails (bad blogger!!!) and I do apologize for answering so late.  I'm beginning to feel a little better but there is still enough symptoms and fatigue that all computer time today was spent lazily reading through some favorite blogs.  Of course, I had to send out a Happy Birthday to E. as it is very much expected... and it takes about two minutes to change the header to not show snow.  ;)

Picture: The Sledding Party; allposters.com

Happy Birthday, Elisabeth!


You gave me a gift nine years ago that no one else could give me... the gift of being a Grammie.  :)

You are loved muchly...

Picture:  Elisabeth and Matthew at Old Sturbridge Village

Tuesday, February 01, 2011

Books read in January


There is ice beating against the window, which does not bode well for the power staying on here in the Rural Electric Company region.

Just in case... 
cell phone is charged,
flashlight out,
hurricane lamp covers ready for candles (I do have a cat, you know),
dishwashing almost all caught up,
essential laundry washed and dried,
made our "larger" meal at lunch and planning sandwiches for dinner,
have a thermos filled with hot coffee (hey, I have my priorities), and
cinnamon rolls are baked and iced (thanks for the idea, Heather!).

I'm quickly typing up this post... which will explain any typos.  Once the dishes which are soaking are washed and in the red Rubbermaid drainer... I'm done for the day regardless of the power grid.

So...  books read in January are:

Fiction

I started The Lord of the Rings but set it aside until next month as I don't want to interrupt it once I start reading.  This occurring when I was able to get Marriage to a Difficult Man from the library.

Non-Fiction

Marriage to a Difficult Man; The Uncommon Union of Jonathan and Sarah Edwards
by Elisabeth D. Dodds
Could be my favorite biography of all time... and I've read a lot of biography.  Although I'd heard of this book before, it is often quoted in Noel Piper's Faithful Women and their Extraordinary God.  I was able to find a copy in my library albeit I had to ask for it at the reference desk as it was not on the main shelves.

It is not only the story of the Edwards' and their family but of the Great Awakening during that time and it provides real insight into Colonial America and New England history.  Deliciously written, just as if one were reading a newsy letter from a good friend.  It took me the full two weeks I had it from the library to read it, only because it is so full of rich material.  Highly Recommended!

Tea and Crumpets by Margaret Johnson
I really liked this library book about tea time.  Easy to read with a lot of authentic English (as in England) tea time recipes. This would make a great book to keep on the cookbook shelf if you love to have tea parties.

Tea With Friends by Elizabeth Knight
Another library book about tea time.  An entertaining book to read with sweet illustrations... a good gift book to give a tea loving friend with a tin of favorite tea.

Organically Raised by Anni Daulter
This is actually a recipe book for making organic foods for babies and toddlers but as I scanned through it on the New Non-fiction shelf of the library, I thought it had enough general information to be useful.  It's a little bit on the new-agy side of whole foods but it has a lot of useful ideas regarding healthy eating for kids.

The Farm Chicks' Christmas by Serena Thompson
I was thrilled to see this on the New Non-Fiction shelf of the library.  I had read mixed reviews of the book on Amazon (some people disappointed it didn't have very many recipes) but I loved their first book and wanted to read this one by Serena.

I found it to be a delightful Christmas book with a lot of vintage decorating ideas, Christmas crafts that actually made things I'd want to display (come on, you know what I mean...), and while it doesn't have many recipes what it does have are tried and true family favorites.  Definitely a book I will consider buying and would make an excellent gift to a friend who loves "all things Christmas".

Grow Great Grub; Organic Food from Small Spaces by Gayla Trail
This is a book I purchased with Amazon credit and am I ever glad I did!  You know how Amazon recommends books to you?  I think this one was recommended while perusing Sharon Lovejoy's books on Amazon (you must read Sharon's books!)

It is written by Trail, who also wrote a gardening book called You Grow Girl, a gardening book written for girls.  She blogs at YouGrowGirl.com.  I thought it would give good information for my raised bed garden but she has inspired me to grow veggies on the deck, too...  (Link corrected for You Grow Girl).

This book (Grow Great Grub) is absolutely wonderful, full of PICTURES (which a visual learner like myself needs) and while it would be very helpful for the experienced gardener, it is simple enough for someone like myself who is just beginning to expand a garden past the occasional tomato plant and basil.

Picture: Kim Sun Book Shop; allposters.com

Winter weather... blech!

We're in the mid-storm lull right now with the worst of the weather knocking at the door of our county.  I knew it had to be bad when all the colleges and Universities were closed already. The TV news anchors are saying people should charge their cell phones now in case power is lost later, I never thought of that!  Phone charging...

Should we not lose power, I'll be putting together my Books Read in January post later today or tomorrow.  I've been under the weather (literally) now for about a week-and-a-half so e-mails are far behind... just be patient and you'll hear from me soon.

It was this time last year that I ended up in the ER for awhile so you can imagine I'm being very careful not to push a weak immune system.  I keep telling my Southern friends I'm going to show up on their door soon but even they have had cooler weather.

I am SO glad since everything in the house is organized, my housework is only maintenance.  I'm closing the door to Christopher's room... and the garage.  ;)

Be back later... God willing and the creek don't freeze... and the power stays on.