Sunday, September 01, 2019

Sunday Afternoon Tea - Slow food, slow reading, slow down

This Sunday Afternoon Tea post was originally published in 2015 when my Word for the Year was... Focus.

Sometimes I wish there was... somewhere in my immediate surroundings... a Narnia like wardrobe or painting in which I could enter another world.  One with Mr. and Mrs. Beaver serving tea as well as majestic lions bringing about the end of a winter with no Christmas.

Of course, knowing my own failings as one does over the years, I would avoid the wardrobe like the proverbial plague because adventure is the last thing I need with a chronic illness.  Give me my sofa.  And my pillow.

Instead, God would have to pull me into His Adventure through something like... a painting.  One in which I was deeply intrigued and while closely looking at brush strokes and the use of color... suddenly awash in an ocean of another world.

That would certainly get (and keep) my attention!  But in this world, God does not work that way.  Instead most often He nudges at us gently, more like Mrs. Beaver than Aslan.  There have been times in my life in which I am certain I heard the roar of the Lion of Judah at work in circumstances.  But mostly He speaks through His Word.  And circumstances. And little nudges.

That is what He is doing with this whole focusing thing going on.  I have walked with Him long enough to know if something keeps floating to the surface of my thinking, it is usually Heaven inspired.  Especially if it brings with it a Holy apprehension and not an earthly fear.

I started reading a rather big novel last week and had a bit of an effort getting past the first quarter of the book.  Once I really got into the reading, I loved it but before that time... everything distracted me.  From the sound of the winter winds beating against the window to the gentle breathing of the Maine Coon kitty curled up on the back of the sofa between the window and me.

I read somewhere... a magazine or online or in a blog or perhaps while Googling something else entirely... that technology is much to blame for our distractedness in this the 21st Century.

I would agree in some instances, for if I'm reading a book on the iPad using the Amazon app, the instrument in hand seems to think I need to know when Jill has pinned something on Pinterest or Jane has sent an e-mail.  Albeit I may be waiting for an e-mail but usually not.

Technology is a wonderful thing that we so often take for granted.  Recently I missed part of a Joel Rosenberg interview about his new book on a program that I very much wanted to hear.  All I needed to do was click on the app for that network (which is downloaded already on the iPad) and choose the previous day's program for which to click and listen to the interview.  On my sofa.  Anytime I so choose.  Amazing.

My mother was a child when most people continued to use the horse and buggy for transportation.  She remembered when her father purchased one of the first automobiles in her County in Kentucky.  That was not all that long ago you know.

The main thesis of the article said our brain was meant for slow days and slow work and the slow passage of time.  It gets confused in this speed of light world in which we live these days.  A world where one can have hundreds and hundreds of books on a small electronic device (some of which were absolutely free).  A world with too many options.

It gets... distracted... until it reaches a stage where we find it difficult to focus on anything for long.  Definitely.

I don't want a complete return to the 18th or 19th century.  It is good to drive down the road to Kroger when I have forgotten to put milk or eggs on the grocery list.  I very much enjoy listening to a Christmas concert live on PBS from the other side of the world and indoor plumbing is a miracle of the ages.  As a preschool child, I lived in a rural home that had indoor running water but one had to use the facilities... out back.  Not fun out in the country for a child with a vivid imagination.

But there is something to be said for bringing back some of the old ways.  Slow food simmering on the stove, developing flavors over time.  Homemade bread allowed to rise on the kitchen counter next to the stove in winter.  Conversations with no hurry.  The reading of a long novel as one's head lays on a fluffy pillow and whose legs are covered by an equally fluffy cat.

I do enjoy a proper tea where the teapot is swished out and allowed to steep with very hot water from the faucet to prepare it for the job to come.  This happens as one keeps an eye on the steam in the tea kettle to make certain it does not begin to sing if using for green tea and letting it come to a full chorus of song for black and herbal blends.

So much nicer than nuking water in a mug and throwing in a tea bag as my husband is prone to do.  Although I do use tea bags most of the time for the good tea bags are quite convenient and keeps one from having to dig wet tea leaves from the spout of the teapot... but I digress.

I was watching the final season of Larkrise to Candleford again recently.  The entire series but especially the last two seasons centered around the theme of change as the 19th century was ending and the 20th century was about to blossom.  It is quite fun to watch how the different people in the village and town react to the inevitable change.

My favorite is Queenie who has pretty much lived long enough to come to peace with her surroundings.  She holds on to the old ways, making lace by hand and using herbs to cure the sick.  But her advice is often to consider the new ways and learn how to live within them... for "progress" will not be stopped.  While cherishing that which is good from the past.

So this year, as I relocate my ability to focus, I am paying attention to the still small Voice and to the wisdom of Queenie by finding a balance in all of it.  To live each day with an intent to focus instead of letting the World define who I am and what I do and how I go about doing it all.

Hallelujah.  And Amen.  So be it.  And we will chat about it more in coming Sundays.

Image:  Women at Tea by Albert Lynch


Terra said...

Slow food, slow tea, books and slow times all appeal to me. I like your post and I will look for Queenie when I watch Lark Rise sometime. Being retired is somewhat of a help in slow calm living but I still feel that modern urge to do a lot. It would be nice to have tea with Mrs. Beaver.

It's Just Dottie said...

Love your words...I have been reading your posts for many years now... Almost everything about me has changed as I have grown older. God and you have guided me through the changes.. Thank you.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for sharing this post! It’s a good reminder! This summer just flew by way too fast for me. I am in need of some slow days..... time for tea, time to relax, and time to ponder.
Praying for healing your loved one and peace for you.
Laura C (WA)

The Journey said...

yes, I too had an imagination- We had a house with a path- till I was 4, my grandma had one till I was 10. I would love to go back to the slow days on farm- there was a lot of hard work, life was simpler and not so much stuff.

A friend of mine with 7 children made a narina set up in her basement. She collected people fake Christmas trees- I told her I wanted to come to see it.

Suzan said...

Nearly three years ago I was blessed to visit the village where Larkrise to Candleford was filmed. It was quaint and very cold in January for this Australian girl. That was a very special day.

I live a very slow life. I don't do well with noise and fuss. I have lost a lot of hearing which includes total los sin my left ear from the mumps when I was seven. Extra noise and business upset me no end. It is so wonderful to enjoy the day as it passes. For instance today I looked after my granddaughter who is two on Saturday. We had a lovely day and on a whim we drove to the bayside to have fish and chips. What joy to watch the world through the eyes of a very young child.

God bless you and may this week be special.

Vee said...

You, my dear, are my Mrs. Beaver. I imagine that you have found a “Mrs. Beaver” in your corner, too.
This was a lovely essay to return to, but then you could hardly go wrong with anything you have written.

Now I want to chat about that painting. Here you have a lovely lady serving tea, though she does not appear to be much older than the young women who lean slightly toward her. Perhaps she is the eldest sister. Then we have the girl wearing red. Red. RED. What does it mean? Really, I have decided that she is the favorite daughter of the artist. LOL! Something fun to ponder.

June's Jottings said...

What a lovely post Brenda, and yes there are some (?) things that I wish had not changed with progress in this modern world. I have an e-reader that I take when we travel with our caravan, mainly for weight purposes, but I have to say I much prefer a real live book to hold - there is just something 'special' about them.

I look forward to visiting your blog again - have a good week.