Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Beauty in the midst of trials

I hope you liked the pictures. I plan to take some more soon, especially of the way the flowers near the front porch turned out this year. I need to trim the hedges out front before taking a picture but we are in the midst of a few days of (much needed) rainfall.

Many thanks for the comments and e-mails about the latest homeschooling post. I will always be thankful we decided to homeschool Christopher after a couple of difficult public school years (and their unwillingness to do anything but drug him for the ADHD symptoms). It has been a great experience.

Not perfect, any means. Into the homeschooling soup we had Christopher's severe ADHD symptoms, his dad's physical and emotional challenges, major financial reversals, multiple moves, and my own development of a chronic illness. Life happens in the midst of imperfections.

It would have been easier if we didn't have all the challenges but then again...I can't complain about the results. I think many of Christopher's good character points (and those of his older sister) have come about because they did have to go through pretty severe trials when young. They both have seen miraculous answers to prayer, as well as the benefits of never giving up when life becomes difficult.

As I look back, it is not in spite of the various trials that I care so much about living a life surrounded by beauty ...literature, music, art, great food, flowers, taking tea, etc. It is because of the trials. By choosing to surround myself with beauty, I was able to handle the circumstances that were out of my control a little better.

Life isn't perfect...far from it. This isn't Heaven, yet. However, we can choose to become depressed and bitter or we can It doesn't have to cost much, for a life of simplicity can be quite freeing of those things which drag us down financially. As long as we stop to enjoy what we have and not always be thinking of our next purchase (which can be a challenge whether we shop at Macy's or Goodwill), then we have peace as we learn to find fulfillment with less. That doesn't mean the "less" can't be wonderful. Far from it, if we are going to have less in our homes then I would hope what we do choose is something of beauty and value...and not disposable. (Well, except my camera.)

UP's comment in another post, talking about his mom finding comfort from her mental illness by baking in her kitchen, reminded me of my sister's mother-in-law when I was growing up (remembering that most of my brothers and sisters are old enough to be my parents!). She had a small kitchen that overlooked her backyard and the forest area behind it. Every time my mom and I would visit her, we would find her with her apron on and making something wonderful in that small kitchen. She reminded me a lot of Aunt Bee on the old Andy Griffith show. I know her circumstances were not the best but her home was always filled with good smells, tasty treats, and a clutter free environment that was so peaceful.

We are creative because we are created in the image of God...who creates. I think He has to absolutely love to create. He didn't have to make food with flavors that not only taste good alone but become spectacular when mixed together. He didn't have to create flowers of all colors and designs. He didn't have to make puppies, or kittens, or horses, or the duck billed platypus (which I think is truly proof that God has a sense of humor). I'm glad he decided we would have sunrises and sunsets...for we didn't have to have colors like that. Not to mention the four different seasons for those of us who live in such environments.

No, beauty was His the midst of the midst of the midst of a fallen world.


Catherine said...
This comment has been removed by the author.
Catherine said...

Oops--sorry, deleted by accident the first time! This is a lovely post. I have experienced some of the challenges you mention within my own life. Despite the hardships, the joys and the beauty are what sustain. Thank you for reminding me of this tonight, especially when sometimes I can doubt my own faith and beliefs in the simplest things, the wonder of the world, and the beauty of creation.

Best, Catherine

Anonymous said...

Thanks I needed these words tonight!! God Bless you, Joy

Randi said...

Thanks for this encouraging post. Right now there are some trials that do not seem to be going away and I have spent far too much time wondering "why"! I need to direct my gaze in another direction to find God's grace and help. He will lead...

lady laura said...

Lovely post, Brenda, and a needful reminder to me. Thank you.

Theresa said...

"He gives us richly all things to enjoy"...and He does care about even the small things!
He calls the stars by name...when you think of how many stars and galaxies there are it is detail too small for His eyes.
Thanks for the encouraging post, stopped in to say hey! Theresa

Anonymous said...

If we have glimpses of God's beauty now, it will be much more Glorious in Eternity!

We do have choices. To have a grumpy attitude or one that glorifies our Lord! Thanks for your encouraging words.

freddie said...

Life happens in the midst of imperfections!

you can't imagine how beautiful and deep and true and powerful is this phrase to me!
Thanks Brenda!

Anonymous said...

I agree-such a lovely post. I just love the way you write.
joanna :)

SMA said...

Beauty is here, near, around and inside.I think , it is a matter of choice to live at it's side most of the time.
Thank you for your words! And for music too. Sma

Anonymous said...

Oh what a lovely post. I am currently reading "Hidden Art" by Edith Schaeffer. And I too agree with you that God's beauty is all around us. HIS presence is never more aware to me than when I am watching the hummingbird. I know each of us has our special something but when I watch the birds I am truly in awe. Their shapes, their colors and they fly! Thank you . Maryellen

Morning Glory said...

I'm sneaking in a few more blog reads before my computer goes off and I leave town. The words you say always leave me with such a feeling of peace and calm. I really agree with your perspective on creating beauty and peacefulness around us, and I want that for myself.

Susie Q said...

This is such a lovely post and just filled my heart...
Thank you for helping to remind me of what is truly important in this world.

You are a special lady.


Lallee said...

Brenda, this was a *beautiful* post through and through! I agree with surrounding ourselves with beauty. It does help to bring us calm in the midst of chaos. I think of it as a reflection of the Creator of beauty and our telling Him we appreciate it. It's children copying what the Parent does.


Lady-in-the-Making said...

Thank you. Your posts are helping me so much today in my own trial. God bless you.

Lori said...

Thank you for your words of encouragement. I have some similar struggles and was wondering how to get through them. They have been long term and we as a family are struggling. Thank you for reminding me that it can be done. I appreciate your sharing those things.


Anonymous said...

�Hes big [url=]Arian Foster Blue Jersey[/url]
hes fast [url=]Drew Brees Womens Jersey[/url]
he can catch, said Browns coach Pat Shurmur [url=]Authentic Clay Matthews Jersey[/url]
I think theres a tendency among professional athletes not to look into the right equation in terms of risks versus benefitst going to win as a pocket passer A coach, the unquestioned leader of his beloved organization, is caught in a highly publicized pay-for-performance sc[url=]Demarcus Ware Jersey[/url]
al [url=]Clay Matthews Womens Jersey[/url]
, to much consternation [url=]Authentic Clay Matthews Jersey[/url]
controversy, is barred from all contact with his team for one year It would be nice to close the season with three straight wins re disabled [url=]Whoelsale Jerseys China[/url]
the investigator then sees them outside on a ladder painting their house