I was thinking of a new post this morning when I remembered this one from last year. It says exactly what I was thinking (must be a seasonal thing). ;)
I have written before about purchasing gifts for others that we may not think would be special. However, when you give a gift of an item that is more than someone on a tight budget would buy for themselves, it is indeed very special.
Obviously gift cards are usually appreciated whether they are to a restaurant, a store, for the gas station, Amazon, etc. I once received a gift of a prepaid Visa (I think, could have been Mastercard) that allowed me to purchase items online like stocking various nuts from the growers, An unusual gift that I appreciated so much.
I read that many people do not like gift cards and I wonder what planet they are from. However, I digress...
One of my favorite gifts ever received was the "Wedding Recovery" box a good friend gave me. I opened it up after returning home from my son's wedding (per the instructions from the giver of the gift) and was so happy to see tea, snacks, if I remember... some chocolate, and a few past issues of British magazines my friend knew I'd love to read.
Not only did it help me relax after a busy season of wedding preps (and I was just the groom's mom!) but I was touched because it showed how well my friend knew what I loved.
I was thinking of this last week as I was purchasing groceries and saw the various items that would make great gifts for people I knew. Especially those items they might not buy for themselves due to the cost.
What would be pricey for everyday use was perfect for Christmas giving...a gift that will get used and not end up unused on a shelf at Goodwill.
Some possible gift items I saw at the grocery store were:
- A bag of almonds, pecans, walnuts, etc.
- A bottle of California Ranch Everyday olive oil.
- A small bottle of a more pricey olive oil for the true gourmet.
- A small bottle of extra aged balsamic vinegar for the gourmet.
- A wedge of Parmigiano-Reggiano or another favorite cheese.
- A jar of great olives, sun dried tomatoes, or a tube of tomato paste.
- A bag of very good ground coffee or coffee beans (if you know they have a grinder)... or tea.
- A scone mix with a jar of lemon curd.
- An unusual spice such as smoked paprika for the cook.
- Himalayan pink salt or a box of a very good flaked sea salt.
- A bag of organic raw sugar or a very nice real maple syrup.
- A good quality dish washing liquid such as Mrs. Meyers or 7th Generation.
- Their pet's favorite food (if you know it because pets can be picky).
- ... and so much more if you are on the lookout for ideas.
Something I buy there that would be a great gift for someone you know who loves cheese and good butter... a package of salted Kerrygold butter (in the gold package) and a couple small packages of Kerrygold cheese. Our Aldi's carries Kerrygold Blarney Castle (a mild Gouda style cheese) and their Skellig (a mild cheddar). Add a box of good crackers and for less than $20.00 you have a very yummy gift.
If you have a friend who is a busy single parent, I can't think of a better fairly inexpensive gift than either offering to bring over a home cooked dinner or even simply picking up a dinner to go from a restaurant. Even cold cuts and cheese from the deli would have been quite wonderful when I was working full time.
After I had my first eye surgery, our pastor brought by dinner from a favorite cafeteria. Such a gift would be lovely for anyone who doesn't get to eat out much and perhaps cannot go to a restaurant themselves for various reasons.
Of course, there are nonfood options. A copy of a favorite magazine that is too expensive for their budget normally (Bella Grace for the writer and dreamer, Where Women Cook, Artful Blogging, British Country Living, etc.) and perhaps some tea or their favorite coffee to brew is a very thoughtful gift. Some of these are available at grocery stores such as Meijers in our area and all of them are sold at Barnes & Noble.
I know this is not a long list but I hope it sparks imagination. For unless someone has lived on a very tight budget, they don't realize what a great gift many everyday items would be for a friend or family member.