tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post765544863410302605..comments2024-03-23T21:38:31.368-04:00Comments on Coffee Tea Books and Me: Sunday Afternoon Tea - Striving for Peace on the InternetUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-50107402639699321532018-03-18T01:55:25.329-04:002018-03-18T01:55:25.329-04:00Well stated, Brenda - Thank you! Longtime reader o...Well stated, Brenda - Thank you! Longtime reader of your blog. "Peace of mind" has been a frequent topic in my thoughts lately. One of the intangibles whose assurance money cannot purchase. After the Presidential Election, everything shifted my perspective of online connections I used to enjoy. I began to dislike (and not respect) many of the views belonging to folks I had never met "in real life." Once this was realized, I knew it was time to pull the plug. <br /><br />I'm so thankful that you keep writing and giving glory to God. <3<br /><br />Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06943810545782366677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-19805035906426056292018-03-17T09:59:41.587-04:002018-03-17T09:59:41.587-04:00Wonderful post! I have been reading your blog for...Wonderful post! I have been reading your blog for years but have never commented. This post hit so close to home for me today. My faith has increased immensely over the last 4 years, especially learning that everything happens in "God's time" not "my time". He WILL provide. As a recent widow with NO family, I have moved from a 2 bedroom home to a 1 bedroom apartment! Downsizing will certainly make you see what is important and what is actually needed. Along with getting rid of stuff, I got rid of Facebook altogether (I always just read things but never posted). I still read your blog and only the ones you have links to. I also got rid of my old church and am looking for a new one. During my times of trouble, I kept being asked to minister to others because "you need to stay busy", but sometimes I needed ministering to but no one had the time. I also limit my internet time to just checking email (and junking most of it) and checking things like online banking. I did not mean to carry on so with my troubles. But just remember there are folks like me that DO NOT make snarky comments on blogs. We all need to be more kind and encouraging. If I don't like a blog, I don't read it. Bless you Brenda!<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-66993703425910683152018-03-13T23:27:20.052-04:002018-03-13T23:27:20.052-04:00Your words gave me much to consider as I rethink m...Your words gave me much to consider as I rethink my online presence and interactions. Thank you.Cynthia Berengerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00279986220054651908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-63544069289230160732018-03-13T21:24:56.120-04:002018-03-13T21:24:56.120-04:00I've been doing the same thing lately. I'm...I've been doing the same thing lately. I'm getting so many emails that I unsubscribe to 5 a day and they still keep coming. Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17346526327368134411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-6781136377831387962018-03-13T19:58:36.452-04:002018-03-13T19:58:36.452-04:00You're right. I recently rid myself of FB and...You're right. I recently rid myself of FB and Instagram. FB had to go after the election. Too much negativity and hostility. I have so much more time now!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-23252203099828912032018-03-13T19:01:01.257-04:002018-03-13T19:01:01.257-04:00Janet (anonymous) is so right there about FB: &qu...Janet (anonymous) is so right there about FB: "I rarely hear about something wonderful that they encountered while they are 'keeping in touch with family and friends' I can walk down to the shops and in random encounters with strangers come home with very good things I can share! I try for intentional presence!Mairinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16483256924830792836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-28918391912591069072018-03-13T18:52:48.175-04:002018-03-13T18:52:48.175-04:00I’ve been saying, for the last year, that we can c...I’ve been saying, for the last year, that we can control what we see and read! You’re post is a perfect example of how to do it!<br /><br />We don’t need added stress, we need time with the Lord, to help others, to encourage one another.<br /><br />I’m grateful that we met online, and always give thanks for you!Deanna Rabe - Creekside Cottage Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16133684514103206137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-6468833511445060712018-03-13T09:55:07.084-04:002018-03-13T09:55:07.084-04:00This post is why I keep reading your blog. As for...This post is why I keep reading your blog. As for FB, I only have four friends and most of the sites I follow (39) are connected to my church denomination and other Christian ministries.Nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10205080192017433672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-69790611473808658772018-03-13T07:30:04.920-04:002018-03-13T07:30:04.920-04:00Brenda, you are always an inspiration in letting g...Brenda, you are always an inspiration in letting go and letting God. <br /><br />Even though I have never been connected with any social media sites, I found my concentration waning since I do read articles and some news online. For Lent I have been practicing 1-2 hours of reading in a quiet room to increase my focus and attention - and it's working. Sounds like a lot of time just doing "nothing", doesn't it? Well, I have never asked my friends how much time they spend on FB but I'll bet it adds up to more than that each day. And I rarely hear about something wonderful that they encountered while they were "keeping in touch with family and friends". Just yesterday I spoke with an old friend (on the phone) who posted a photo on her page and immediately got a snarky comment from a daughter-in-law with whom she has a difficult relationship. It caused hurt and resentment and did not help their relationship at all. Don't even get me started about how FB and Twitter have become the chief source of news for many folks -and we wonder why we are a nation divided. <br /><br />Thank you for your faith-filled insights, Brenda. You are helping more people than you know, at least on this side of the veil!<br /><br />Janet<br /><br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-68985225672048000252018-03-12T22:21:11.629-04:002018-03-12T22:21:11.629-04:00I've been "off" Facebook for two wee...I've been "off" Facebook for two weeks. I say "off" because I can't completely leave it due to work, but I've stopped using the feed and my personal wall. I've had to give up on news. I went to Rod Dreher's blog yesterday and it was just SO depressing. <br /><br />I'm focusing more and more on my own little corner of the world that I can control (my website). And reading good books and playing my piano. What else can you do?Sallie Borrinkhttps://sallieborrink.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-37253972107679157722018-03-12T13:38:00.996-04:002018-03-12T13:38:00.996-04:00Yes, we must be careful who we read and connect wi...Yes, we must be careful who we read and connect with on-line. We won't change someone's opinion by just one or two lines on social media. Better to talk with them in person over a cup of tea or coffee!Instagram.com/melissasnoteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03389672466065251231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-17400492697241707592018-03-11T22:35:53.676-04:002018-03-11T22:35:53.676-04:00
Your blog, Brenda, is one of the scant few I rea...<br /><br />Your blog, Brenda, is one of the scant few I read regularly (for years) You have spiritual warmth and courage and practicality. My kind of friend. Look after Brenda! Mairin.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-9444585633899356942018-03-11T22:33:44.551-04:002018-03-11T22:33:44.551-04:00My problem is that my husband keeps sending me man...My problem is that my husband keeps sending me many things to read online. I was led to ask Jesus today what I should pray for, for my husband and the answer was "wisdom". I've been praying a long time for wisdom for myself, now I'm going to have to wait for him to catch up! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-12018967335581027682018-03-11T22:03:31.893-04:002018-03-11T22:03:31.893-04:00It is always a pleasure to read your Sunday posts ...It is always a pleasure to read your Sunday posts and to see how you are working on or around a difficulty. Life sure is messy. Veehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00618654361869856894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-39308332487181458332018-03-11T21:58:09.111-04:002018-03-11T21:58:09.111-04:00Thank you for this reminder, Brenda. God bless you...Thank you for this reminder, Brenda. God bless you.Glendanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-17406188668865396502018-03-11T21:43:30.541-04:002018-03-11T21:43:30.541-04:00Well said, Brenda. It's amazing how few blogs ...Well said, Brenda. It's amazing how few blogs I still read that I "started out" with. But yours is one I do still read. I also keep cutting back on time spent on the computer, which helps me prioritize where I visit online. Keep the wisdom coming! Have a great week.Besshttp://www.fixingmythoughts.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-58051126283065797942018-03-11T19:41:29.661-04:002018-03-11T19:41:29.661-04:00I've been lurking for a while, although this w...I've been lurking for a while, although this will be my first comment. I did a little FB decluttering after the election. Last week was tough and some things online added to my saddness and discontent. I do believe your post was a timely reminder that I need to do some more online decluttering. Wendihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02547001714523524390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-81170974294340202542018-03-11T18:38:31.479-04:002018-03-11T18:38:31.479-04:00So much anxiety I have had lately. God has answer...So much anxiety I have had lately. God has answered a huge prayer request for me and yet the doldrums continue. What is that about? Like you have said we must search out peace and be as calm as we can. Thank you for this blog post.Ritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07287238810628574373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-11655808444150223402018-03-11T18:24:46.961-04:002018-03-11T18:24:46.961-04:00This is a great post and I have done the same. I ...This is a great post and I have done the same. I have unfollowed a LOT of people on facebook and I can now get on and get back off facebook in a very short time. I do love instagram, but I follow a lot of crafty people and just love to see their photos.I don't go there every day, but when I do, it's like attending a quilt and crafting show! I like Sandi's idea above, putting the news in Spanish....lol.... great idea!Little Penpenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01374048900216199298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-89380752670046467862018-03-11T17:17:37.196-04:002018-03-11T17:17:37.196-04:00Beautiful photo..got cut off in my comment. Beautiful photo..got cut off in my comment. Jane Pnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-35439914330910654072018-03-11T17:16:00.659-04:002018-03-11T17:16:00.659-04:00o! I like your ideas about decluttering the inbox....o! I like your ideas about decluttering the inbox. Need to do some of that myself.Jane Pnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-72329926260832573022018-03-11T14:19:59.703-04:002018-03-11T14:19:59.703-04:00Dear Brenda, I have never met you in person and pr...Dear Brenda, I have never met you in person and probably never will in this life, but I consider you a friend, I have loved your blog for several years now. When I first "discovered" you, I went back and read earlier posts that I had missed. Hope you will be around for more years or till He comes, and will not let any snarky or otherwise not nice comments get you down. There are those of us who love you and your words of wisdom. Blessings to you, dear friend, Sharon D.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32960314.post-28863968526891943292018-03-11T13:51:56.050-04:002018-03-11T13:51:56.050-04:00This is a good reminder. A lot of wisdom here. I h...This is a good reminder. A lot of wisdom here. I have to be very careful too. On an old browser I used to have, I switched my news preferences to Spanish (which I don't speak), so if I saw a picture that looked important I would know to go look for that news in English. Everything else remained a blissful mystery! I figured if the moon twirled of its access or aliens invaded, someone would mention it. <br /><br />Seek peace and pursue it.Sandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08702620069148109246noreply@blogger.com